i have been eyeing a woman for a long time. she is married, so she rarely shows any openings, and i couldn't make a move. however, a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity arose. her husband's convenience store seems to be struggling. i entered as a consultant, offering to turn around the business in exchange for a condition: for one month, his wife would be my secretary. if he refused, the couple would eventually have to close the store… he had no right to refuse.